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18-05-2024 10:48 PM
18-05-2024 10:48 PM
The ride with teen with mental illness
Hello Sane families
I joined the forum to share and hear other families and lived experiences of people.
Our 16 year old has bipolar the ride of supporting her and getting support has been exhausting and difficult.
Firstly due to teen drug and alcohol rehabilitation due to self medication to feel calmer and not being able to get a diagnosis or medication until not on drugs.
To schooling and challenge when child does not fit 3 high schools and to the current decision to home school because of school refusal.
It's exhausting because it's heartbreaking to see your child trying to do things to improve their lives and feel in control only for the mind to change to high risk behaviour like going out not sleeping for days on a high to very low post high uncontrollable crying.
We are looking to review medication to improve stabilise I am interested if any parents or people with mental illness can share their experiences.
Warmest refards
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19-05-2024 03:12 PM
19-05-2024 03:12 PM
Re: The ride with teen with mental illness
Hey @fern7 thank you for joining the Forums and sharing your experiences with the community!
It sounds like you and your young person have been through a tough time, and you are demonstrating your resilience and strength by reaching out to your peers in the community. Caring for a loved one can be very challenging and you are brave in taking steps to learn from others.
The Mental Health Foundation Australia has a Bipolar support group for carers that you might find is beneficial for you: Bipolar Carers Support Group (mhfa.org.au)
Also, you might like to contact Home | Carer Gateway to learn more about how you can be supported.
Thank you again for sharing your experiences here!
Take care
RiverSeal
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19-05-2024 07:35 PM
19-05-2024 07:35 PM
Re: The ride with teen with mental illness
Thank-you so much for your response I will check out these support grouops.
I already feel much better reading others experiences. Sincerely appreciate all of those in sane community sharing.
Warm regards Fern7
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19-05-2024 07:51 PM
19-05-2024 07:51 PM
Re: The ride with teen with mental illness
Hey @fern7 ,
I'm sorry to hear how hard things are for you at the moment. At 16, friends often mean the world. Yet when they experience school can't, it's so hard. I hear how much your child wants to get better.
Were adjustments made for your child at school to make it easier? For example, later starts, or half days?
How is your child going with homeschooling?
It's also good to know that there are opportunities for schooling in the future, seeing one's MH really needs to come first. I worked with a year 10 student once. School simply just wasn't for her and it really affected her. She ended up completing year 11 and 12 at tafe after a bit of a break to help with her mental health.
Hopefully, once you child's medication is reviewed, there is some improvement. It took me over 10 changes to get the right med.
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19-05-2024 08:14 PM
19-05-2024 08:14 PM
Re: The ride with teen with mental illness
Thanks again for kind reach out!
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24-05-2024 12:45 AM
24-05-2024 12:45 AM
Re: The ride with teen with mental illness
Regarding schooling. There are numerous alternative schools out there that cater for Adults / Teens from very different backgrounds.
If home-schooling is burdensome/ not working out pls consider.
You will need a referral from your treatment team so they can guide you both through various options. https://www.travancoresch.vic.edu.au/
These were our considerations based upon our location.
Hester Hornbrook Accademy
St Joseph's Flexible Learning Centre Geelong
Indie School - Geelong and Bacchus Marsh
My daughter attendeds one of these after dropping out during year 9.
Anyway just a suggestion