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30-11-2018 04:09 PM
30-11-2018 04:09 PM
Re: Supporting an already Depressed Partner through Cancer diagnosis
gosh ... what do you do, when they refuse propper care and insist they are doing fine on their own? But you know they're not!,, @Former-Member sending you knowing hugs my friend , my mum says she is not going back to hospital -- even with me living up the road from my mum , she still wants to be in control of her life
sooo Independent she is , runs in our family , my great gran was the same still living at home at 95
It wouls be good to suggest not drinking with the meds and see if there is a difference , I know it is hard as mr shaz is down to having 2 litres of wine a week now
at this time when soo much is on my friend @Former-Member, it is soo easy to forget ourselves , we overthink and worry which is totally nomal
my ex neigbour has a dog just like Holly called Dolly , I will ask her about dolly`s arthritis
walking with you my friend xoxo
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30-11-2018 05:33 PM
30-11-2018 05:33 PM
Re: Supporting an already Depressed Partner through Cancer diagnosis
So much going on for you @Former-Member I am not surprised you are having headspins - just thinking about your parents and your hubby would be doing that to you mentally - let alone the physical symptoms you have. Might be a good idea to see your gp about it Hon - that is not normal under any circustances.
I think you do so well under immense pressure from so many angles - you need to look after yourself in all this too sweet @Former-Member. Remember to lean on us here when you need as well - we may not be able to be there in person to help you but we are with you in spirit.
Sending you much love and huge hugs
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30-11-2018 05:55 PM
30-11-2018 05:55 PM
Re: Supporting an already Depressed Partner through Cancer diagnosis
Dearest @Former-Member
I’ll have to come back another time. I’m feeling so uptight this afternoon after shopping, but I just wanted you to know that am really sorry to hear what you’re going through.
Big hugs 🤗💜💖
Thanks for tagging me. 👍😘
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30-11-2018 06:49 PM
30-11-2018 06:49 PM
Re: Supporting an already Depressed Partner through Cancer diagnosis
Hi @Former-Member. Yes I tagged you, but please do not feel obliged to respond. I do not want to overwhelm you. I just wasnt sure if you knew of this thread on the carers side of the forums. And I tend to alternate between this carers thread and my own PTSD thread on the 'far side'. I dont seem to be able to concentrate on both at the same time.
Sorry you're feeling uptight after shopping. Are you able to find some time to devote to self care tonight, or over the weekend perhaps?
Sherry
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30-11-2018 07:10 PM
30-11-2018 07:10 PM
Re: Supporting an already Depressed Partner through Cancer diagnosis
I’m happy for you to tag me @Former-Member
I would like to keep in touch with you.
Deep breathing my way through, thanks. 💜
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30-11-2018 07:40 PM
30-11-2018 07:40 PM
Re: Supporting an already Depressed Partner through Cancer diagnosis
I probably won’t be far away if you want to chat @Former-Member
Words are few, but ok to be here if you need me.
🌷🌸🌺
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30-11-2018 07:41 PM
30-11-2018 07:41 PM
Re: Supporting an already Depressed Partner through Cancer diagnosis
I might not answer/read straight away, but will when I can. @Former-Member 💖
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04-12-2018 07:02 PM
04-12-2018 07:02 PM
Re: Supporting an already Depressed Partner through Cancer diagnosis
Continuing sending gentle thoughts your way @Former-Member
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10-12-2018 09:08 PM
10-12-2018 09:08 PM
Re: Supporting an already Depressed Partner through Cancer diagnosis
thinking of you and sending hug @Former-Member
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11-12-2018 06:25 PM
11-12-2018 06:25 PM
Re: Supporting an already Depressed Partner through Cancer diagnosis
- @Former-Member I'm squinting through a magnifier so mistakes might come through. I wonder if your dizzy head is due to low BP. Have you had it checked recently. As for hubby and your parents, your hands are full. I can't write much atm, but sending a pet rock to sit with you and Holly. Warm thoughts as always.